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Defining “boundaries”

Posted in sobrietyland on July 31, 2007 | Comments Off

Boundary Test 1: When someone invites you in their house, are you supposed to go in? Or should you stay outside and say, “Oh, no thanks, I’m fine.”
Boundary Test 2: When someone says, “I love you,” should you just say “why thank you, that’s nice”?
Boundary Test 3: When someone tells you they’d be shattered if [...]

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Bestfriendless

Posted in sobrietyland on July 31, 2007 | Comments Off

Now that I’m coming down off my gearshift high, I’m starting to get depressed. V-e-r-y depressed. Realizing I’m essentially back on my own again, unable to rely on, even on the pretending of it, that M is my best friend.
I am once again bestfriendless.
That’s deeply depressing to me. If I had only known the truth [...]

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The word of the day is…

Posted in sobrietyland on July 31, 2007 | Comments Off

I decided to meet with M for lunch to go over audition stuff for this weekend. All went fine. I kept reminding myself before I went there… boundaries… boundaries…. but it was okay. Nothing worth reporting. He said he’ll call me tonight but even if he doesn’t that’s okay. Boundaries.

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